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How to break up with someone youve been hookup for 2 years

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I've felt apprehensive about writing on this topic and have thus avoided it for a while. Then today I read this articleand realized it was time.

I know most of you can relate to this topic; some of you have been on both sides of the experience, and some of you only on one. How to break up with someone youve been hookup for 2 years see the thing is, I didn't want to write about how to break up with someone, because I didn't want to seem like an asshole.

Hmm … similar to how I never want to break up with someone because I don't want to seem like an asshole. Breaking someone's heart or wounding it, if you're in a more casual relationship really effing sucks. We always focus on how to heal a broken heart after being dumped, but we never acknowledge how crappy it is to be the heartbreaker.

This is why I chose to do my masters research in the area. Ironically, when I was writing the final chapter of my thesis, I got harshly dumped. Karma or timely comparison experience? Anyway, ending a relationship — whether it be a casual one or a marriage — is thick with anxiety, guilt, and conflict. And thus, what do we tend to do?

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