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Dating a guy for over a month

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User Name Remember Me? I have been dating a guy for about a month. He is very nice. I have only ever been in 1 relationship before and that went for 10 years. This dating scene is very foreign to me. I am starting to feel real strong feelings for this guy.

He has introduced me to some of his friends. When we are out he is very affectionate with me in front of friends. He has told me that he is a slow starter when it comes to new relationships and that he likes to take things slow and asked that I be patient. He told me he likes me and wants to continue seeing me and said that I should just "go with the flow".

We see each other once a weekday, and spend Saturday night with each other. We text every day. I know maybe a month is too early, but how long is too long to wait for that "official couple" status. Sometimes I think that its just a label and I should just enjoy what I have, but other times a label to me would put my mind at ease. A wise friend told me that there shouldn't be any need for "the talk" that actions are louder than words and the fact that he says he wants to continue seeing me and he likes me, and introduces me to his friends means that he is keen and I should go with it.

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Last edited by juxtaposed; 15th April at 6: Stop worrying about the label and just focus on how he acts around you. One month isn't really that long to be honest.

I've dated females months in the past before actually asking "do you want to me a couple". Right now what are you two? Stop overthinking the label and just enjoy the fact that he likes you. People who are worried about their status with someone, shouldn't be sleeping with that person. It's a sign that they have a need for emotional security and they're probably not that good with keeping the sex casual. Originally Posted by juxtaposed.

Reading your post, you are in a relationship I would think. I think more than a 4 meet ups would lead to being on the road to a relationship. FK NO you don't just avoid the talk because a guy is being sweet. Are you sleeping together? Or is official Dating a guy for over a month the only part he wants to take slow?

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