In today's society it is hard to be accepted as an obese or even overweight "attractive" female, but there are certain steps you can take to make yourself feel more attractive and consequently for Big and beautiful people to be attracted to you. Edit Big and beautiful How to Be Big and Beautiful In today's society it is hard to be accepted as an obese or even overweight "attractive" female, but there are certain steps you can take to make yourself feel more attractive and consequently for other people to be attracted to you.
Make sure your hair is working for you. Get a cut that flatters your face shape and keeps head to body proportions in mind. Note, too long hair on plus sized ladies often drags the body down. Too short hair gives the "pin head" effect, that of a small head on a larger body.
Often, dying it a shade or two darker or lighter can make a much more striking appearance than "mousy" hair color. If your natural hair color is boring, consider finding out about your color type and dying it a more flattering shade. Cold or warm color types, or if more in depth, the seasons: Spring, Fall, Winter, and Summer.
information can be found in color type analysis books, and is also very useful in picking out make up and clothing colors that flatter you the most.
Take the time to apply make up. A well made up face, but not overly dramatic that makes you look like a clown, presents a well Big and beautiful image. Learn to accentuate your best features and how to contour your face. Get a make up consultation or invest in a book on applying make up. In general, taking care of yourself will give people an impression of confidence and self worth. The confidence you will feel from being well maintained, will make your great personality the thing people remember about you, not the few extra pounds.
Invest in your teeth, and maintain Big and beautiful skin. Keep your nails well groomed.
These small things make a huge difference. Looking healthy and clean is always Big and beautiful Find at least 5 things about yourself that you like, and think about those when you get down.
Perhaps write them down so you can look at them whenever you need to Take the time to showcase those features. For example, do you have pretty hands? Then wear nice rings and maintain your nails. No one is completely body confident. Be positive about yourself to others, and others will see you in that light. Nothing makes a person look Big and beautiful unattractive to others, regardless of weight, than a person who is constantly make self-deprecating comments.
However, if you seem happy and confident with the way you look, people will be drawn to your personality. Remember also many men find larger women attractive.
Make clothing work for you. Get a book on body proportion analysis or image consulting guidesand figure out what cuts work for your body type. For example, straight leg jeans balance wide hips, so keep away from jeans that taper!
Never wear too baggy, it will make you larger then you are. Never wear too tight Big and beautiful, it will accentuate your problem spots. Wear well fitted cuts, they will put you in the best light.
You do not need to limit yourself black, although darker colors do slenderize, but also be wary of too extremely bright colors and patterns that scream circus tent. Basic pieces can also Big and beautiful jazzed up through bold and creative accessories, which are always conversation starters. Take from the trends what works for you.
If you have trouble looking for trendy clothes that fit your size then consider wearing more timeless pieces and making them up to date with cheap trendy accessories that you will only wear for the season.
Wear only one or two trendy pieces to look in, less is always more. Otherwise have good quality accessories to make an outfit. Invest in good pieces, they often have a longer life then your clothes. Good shoes, bags, and jewelry can make a cheap outfit look more expensive. Get regular exercise, with physician's o. Regular work outs such as walking and swimming are great and help to tone your muscles, give you a healthy glow, help you to feel great and move more gracefully.
Embrace your natural beauty! Not Helpful 0 Helpful You may wash your body every day, but for hair, you can go two or three days without Big and beautiful it. Washing your hair every day can make it unhealthy. Not Helpful 2 Helpful You can answer with a comeback or a joke to seem lighthearted or uncaring, or you can simply choose to ignore it.
It might make you feel bad or less attractive, but just remind yourself that those kind of people's opinion doesn't matter and there are people who love you regardless. Not Helpful 0 Helpful 2. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. Tips Don't look in the mirror and be negative about yourself, pick out Big and beautiful good parts! Remember that no matter how big you are, you're still beautiful!
And remember, it's not all about looks. So pick out something that you are good at, and emphasize that. Look always for the brighter side of life. Shower regularly Big and beautiful at least before you go out.
Don't compare yourself with anyone else. As long as you are yourself people will love you for that and if they don't then they are not worth knowing.