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Especially with ones who made long distance work. I agree I would like to hear someone who got there ex back also.
Thats the hole point of this site I see many ppl struggling with a break up but not much about this process actually doing anything. So lets hear it!
This happen about years ago when we were flatting together. My best friend, who was around years old at the time, got dumped by a girl he had been dating for 18months and he was very much in love with.
I was there with him for those first few weeks as he cried most nights on the couch, drank heaps and was a complete mess. He tried reaching out to her to no success and he went No Contact. After a month or so of feeling sorry for himself, he started getting himself back on his feet and in the 4 months or so of No Contact that follow he went out on a couple of dates and made some positive changes in his life, but he told me his heart was still for his Ex.
The big thing he did during this time was join a local theatre group and he got himself a role in a production. When it was time for the shows he invited a group of us to watch one night, including his Ex who he had reached out too. He had also got his picture with some of the other cast in the local newspaper, which was a good thing as it started the lines of communication with his Ex.
She came along to the play and enjoyed herself. I remember I sat next to her and she was having a good laugh at the jokes in the show, including the ones my friend told. That was the start of her hanging out with No contact with ex boyfriend success stories again in a friends and group setting.
As a group we would go to movies together, spend time at a local bar, go to the beach etc. This went on for a couple of months and I know my best friend was playing it cool. One night after going to a movie as group. Some of us were heading to a bar, but my friends Ex, said she just wanted to go home and was going to catch the bus.
My friend offered to take her home in his car, which she accepted. After a few hours and drinks I headed home, saw that my friend was already home. So being "No contact with ex boyfriend success stories" to find out how his night went and if he talked with his Ex.
I knocked on his bedroom door and then walked straight into his room. Whoops he was in bed with his Ex….
We all had a good laugh about it the next morning as she stayed the night. Three years ago I had the privilege of being his best man at their wedding and they had their first child in Oct last year. They are still today very happy together. You need to get back on your feet and do those things that you are passionate about.
My friends wife told us a couple of years later that seeing him be so happy in the production after 4 -5 months of not seeing him, reignited the flame she had felt for him and from that moment she was keen to get back with him. Just it took a couple of months for it to happen. But after taking time off, we both cooled off and she started missing me, and my desperate energy wore off and I was able to play it cool.
But only if you do it correctly. For the first week after breakupi was begging him and showed him too much No contact with ex boyfriend success stories and neediness of me.
I was like a gum that is stick to the hair. I allowed him to play me or let me be his back-up plan. He still confused to come back to me and hung out with other girl and even went outsideposted couple photos and status on facebook of happying with this new girl.
I felt so hurt. ThenI search my own way in internet to escape from that pain. I saw a lot of relationship master.