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Advice for first time anal sex

A professional sex therapist and...

No butt is meant for sexual penetration. But back to butts. Using lots of anal lube, slip a finger inside your anus, then two, and then three.

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This allows the sphincter muscles that surround the anus to relax and get used to the feeling of expansion. Breathing deeply also helps.

And, of course, the golden rule applies here, as everywhere in bed: There must be consent. How many times a week do you want to be having sex? And is there a healthier way to work porn into your sex life together?

What are your sexual arousal cues? Tight vaginas are the thing right now.

The truth is that your vaginal wall muscles simply snap back after penetration. In other words, life! If you want to do something else, get vaginal weights.

Sit-ups, eating well, and a healthy lifestyle also go a long way towards overall sexual health.

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