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I am scared of ending up as one of those poor women who are married for several years only for it to emerge that her husband is actually gay.

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I am in a new relationship with a lovely guy. Both of us were looking for someone special, and appear to have found what we Gay hookup coming on too strong in each other.

We get on very well and the sexual spark between us is good. This is definitely the most successful relationship I have ever had. I keep praying that he is a straight metrosexual. He is from a European background, where appearance is a priority. He has qualities or traits that are gay. He notices when I change my hairstyle. He is more interested in moisturisers than the average man. He remarks on it if a very good-looking male waiter serves us, likes girlie movies, and is interested in having anal sex with me.

I caught him peeing sitting down once and he explained that his mother made him and his brother do this at home for hygiene purposes. He sometimes showers after sex but tells me this is just to get clean. And since I wash myself afterwards too, why shouldn't he? He does have typical male characteristics too, and he is crazy about my body, can't get enough sex with me.

I know that sexuality isn't black and white, and that we should be open to accepting people and not narrow-minded. I have teased him about being bisexual at opportune moments and he shrugs it off without getting upset. He admits he would like to be penetrated anally, but as part of sexual play and not by another man.

He has always told me the truth about things. I've never caught him out in a lie. I sometimes think that he is strong enough and mature enough to face up to being gay, if he were gay. And that he wouldn't hurt me by doing this Gay hookup coming on too strong me.

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