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Dating a female pianist

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Classical musicians are, by nature, tricky beasts to pin down. Just imagine being in a relationship with one.

Here's what you can expect. You'll always come second No matter what plans you make, a rehearsal will overrun or someone will pull out of a concert at the last minute. Or maybe there's just not enough rosin on their bow and they forgot to come meet you at this bar round the corner from where they live so it'd be really easy and they'd be guaranteed to make it but they didn't because of the bow and rosin issue.

And don't even try to "Dating a female pianist" in with them.

Classical musicians are, by nature,...

If you start laughing Dating a female pianist a joke you don't understand, expect to be questioned on exactly why the phrase 'More like portamental! Your schedules will Dating a female pianist match up Taking on a musician as a partner will tire you out. If you're working comparatively normal hours, you'd better get used to the sight of no-one opposite you at the dinner table.

When they do hang out with you, they over-compensate The inevitable guilt of not spending any time with you has some undesirable side-effects. Smothering being chief among them.

No matter how supportive you are, you'll never 'get' your partner The phrase "but I thought you played really well! Same goes for consoling after failed auditions, bum notes and tripping over on stage. Living with someone who practises. Someone has to stay at home, and it'll be you International tours if they're in an orchestra, hours of travelling to far-flung places if they're a soloist… musicians love to be anywhere, as long as it's not home.

For a long time. So get ready to sit by the phone and wait patiently for their inevitable late-night drunken phone calls. What goes on tour, stays on tour "Did you have a nice tour?

Don't want to talk about it. Never mind the inevitable tour in-jokes, what about all the amazing locations, food, interesting people and cultural high-life that your other half will get to experience without you?

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Long-term commitment is a no-no Artistic, flighty people just don't like the idea of settling down. Well, not unless there's a healthy dose of distractions available. And you don't want to be second fiddle to a distraction.

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Just imagine being in a relationship with one. will have no currency if your musician thinks they've had the worst concert experience of all time. Dating Attractive Young People Relationships and Dating of Young People as a whole, but whether I find myself particularly attracted to a female pianist.

The Chinese piano prodigy takes no prisoners.