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How to tell a girl youre not interested in dating


Tell her as soon as you are aware that you're not interested. You don't want to delay the inevitable, or give her the wrong impression. Make it private, but choose a neutral location. If you're telling her in person, do it in a location where you can easily leave - a public place that's not overly crowded, such as a bench at the park, or a short walk outside.

DON'T do it at your place, because it's always harder to get someone else to leave than to leave yourself.

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Tell her quickly, and tell her the truth. It doesn't have to be a long conversation. Say something like "Look, there's something I want to tell you. I'm really flattered that you like me, and I feel uncomfortable saying this, but I don't have those feelings for you.

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Give her some time to have her feelings about it, but don't get into talking about "Why" you're not interested. The truth is, your reasons are not important - if you aren't interested, you aren't interested. Anything you say can lead to hurt feelings, and isn't likely to go over well. Simply stick with a very simple statement that it just 'wasn't a match,' or that she's a very nice person, but you don't want to be in a relationship with her.

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