Has anyone here read "Dating your ex"? So, I've come across this author, Yangki Christine Akiteng, several times. I have read a lot of her articles and blog posts and even downloaded her free workbook from her site to get an idea of what her style is like.
So far I have really liked a lot of things I have read by her, and I think that her concepts would work in my situation as she is against "No Contact" and I don't think NC will work in my situation. I have been mulling it over for weeks now, and was about to bite the bullet and buy the ebook tonight by my computer is a POS and I wasn't able to.
I even tried to do the unethical thing and find a free download, but my lack of tech savvy made that not doable.
Has anyone read this book? Anyone know where I can find it? Is it worth the money? Any input would be great. Share Share this post on Digg Del. Last edited by LoveShack. I do not believe in NC in the form it is used on LS either.
My first love is dating someone else
People take it like a new religion and seem to overthink and panic, if NC is broken. It should be much more simple.
Those authors of 'get your ex back', 'dating your ex' are playing on people's feelings. Honeslty, they do not really worth of buying, since they're highlighting obvious things or even stereotypes. Even therapists cannot help to the couples in most of the cases. Like come on, who're the authors? They are using some push-pull and other theories about relationships not really giving a deep explanation to the major question 'Why?
Honestly, none of those authors really told why relationships break and how to maintain feelings. At least for me. People come to
Dating your ex yangki christine akiteng review journal las vegas forum mostly not to know what to do, but get an answer to the main question 'Why?
When you know 'why', you know 'how' as well. So, if anything, I'd buy the books explaining it. NC is necessary, but not to a punish your ex or b not to make your ex miss you. It's necessary to get your emotions and impulses under control and let both parties settle. The best thing NC does in reconciliations is not to make your ex miss you though that does happen.
It prevents you from acting like an idiot and digging yourself a deeper hole when you are at your most emotional and vulnerable and your ex is at their most defensive and standoffish. Originally Posted by Simon Phoenix. Originally Posted by ThatJustHappened. Originally Posted by OwlSoul. Yes, I actually read her blog- torontosnumber1datedoctor. Compared to a lot of other dating blogs I read like Evan Marc Katz, I do find alot of her blogs on NC to be very interesting and knowledgeable.
We will have to agree to disagree. I believe that if you're ignoring your ex because you want them back, then you're playing games, not trying to heal. Relationships can't be repaired unless each individual repairs what's going on with them separately.
If you're just focusing on getting the person back, you're not fixing anything, and therefore it's not real NC. All times are GMT The time now is The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. If you or someone close to you is currently in crisis or in an emergency situation, contact your local law enforcement agency or emergency number. Contact Us - LoveShack. Add Thread to del.
Second Chances Called it off but doubting the decision now? Someone wants you back? Let us know about it! P Share Share this post on Digg Del. Originally Posted by Simon Phoenix NC is necessary, but not to a punish your ex or b not to make your ex miss you. It's a healing tool. Originally Posted by Simon Phoenix It can be both actually.
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