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What does it mean when someone says they want to hook up with you


Well, the term "hook up" can mean two things. Buds "hook up" with one another to hang out. And there is nothing going on with Buds, rest assured.

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But there is a suck thing as a "hook up" when it comes to a guy and a girl. This usually involves sex. I would never "hook up" with a girl who I knew only wanted to kiss. I am going to get turned on, and can't do nothing about it. But hook up to him may mean something totally different. To him unless he knows that after the hook up you want to remain a virgin. Just so you two are on the same page, hook up means two different things, either "hook up as friends" or "hook up to have sexual fun".

This is why I hate talking in code. Say what you mean, because code talk can mean something different to either people. And if he doesn't think you are attractive, he has no taste in women. You are more than "just attractive". Don't thank me, thank the Lord for having good taste and giving you a very attractive appearance. Lol, He just gave me the mouth and the good taste and the ability of telling the truth about what I saw. But it's all the Lord, not me. When someone says hey want to "hook up" you can be sure he will take it as far as you will allow him to.

He does find you attractive but ultimately he is only in for for sex. If you are okay with that then go for it. If not just ignore his advances. False, guysdo have decent standards, at least I do, for woman that they want to date or hook up with. So get that thought ou t of your head and yes he is attracted to you. Would you tell a person you did not feel attracted to you would hook up with him? People do not realize it but males and females are very similar in terms of dating.

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Yes, but your last point is also true. Most guys find most non overweight youngish women with boobs and an ass attractive enough to want to hook up with. It's not all that high a bar.

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Guys who do the 'boyfriend girlfriend' thing actually have a higher attraction requirement for a girlfriend then someone they hook up with, though some don't act on that. Yes, he really does find you attractive. I also find you attractive as well. However there are some guys who have lower standards for girls they have sex with, versus girls they actually date. Yes he most probably find you attractive. I think the actual question is does he like me?

He thinks you're attractive or he wouldn't have asked. That said, your first time should be waaay more than just a hookup.

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